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Perfection???? Certain

 

 You're perfect..

 

 You are perfect because you know you make good mistakes and you are not afraid to throw yourself down and destroy yourself and you are not afraid to get up and reassure those close to you, making that defiant look, because in the end you have done nothing to yourself.

 

 You are not perfect because you don't make mistakes, but because you make so many.

 

 You always try again and never give up, hard head and sweet heart.

 

 You are perfect, you recognize your mistakes and you know how to apologize by looking him in the eyes.

 

 You don't hide and face your insecurities.

 

 Perfect because you are sliced every time they destroy you with insults and humiliations, but you don't give up.

 

 And I will never give up because there is more out there waiting for me..

 

  

 

  

 

 2023

 

 A society where perfection is pursued, both physical and mental. Chased by visions of images from social media and television, where fortunately I stopped looking, the images of perfect girls remade and abstracted from this reality. 

 

  

 

 Having said this, I would like to tell you about my experience because I hope it will help many people, women and men, who have escaped from this reality that is destroying and crushing us, not listening to our true nature. 

 

 Many have succeeded but many are still trapped in this harsh reality.

 

 Where having freedom of thought can become a prison, and this is what happened to me..

 

 Many feminicides have happened in recent years and not only this year but I can't believe it... I once thought it was something that crazy people could commit now, even though fortunately I have never had any problems with a show of hands, but I have to admit that for what I have experienced it is as if every time I received an imaginary slap from people who until yesterday I thought were close to me, or who at least showed me their good ... but in reality I have not yet understood in my life things unconditional love. Because I've never experienced it in my life. 

 

 I try to pass it on to my children now, but I don't feel perfect and in fact I make mistakes many times, trying again so as not to be like I was taught in my youth.

 

  

 

 20-11

 

 femicide nr 83 from this year, another murder for this very young girl who had decided to live her life, to make different choices than her boyfriend and to pay dearly for her, she paid dearly for her life. 

 

 In the past when I listened to this news I didn't give it any weight or at least I didn't understand why it could actually happen, but now it's like I found myself in these situations and how I felt them on my skin. it's as if I somehow find myself inside it and how many people, women are part of it. 

 

 I believe that they are moments that you are actually in, but you don't know how to get out of them.  

 

 The sensation is as if you are running out of air because you are in a swimming pool and you are swimming and trying to stay afloat, but in some situations it seems as if someone takes you and makes you sink at least for a few seconds to make you feel the thrill of death, of shortness of breath. 

 

 I don't know if with my words I can make you imagine this situation, what I want to express is that we women, speaking in general, think of being with a person because we have no alternatives, because we have now moved on or he has been our boyfriend for a life and at this point... who tells us to risk turning our lives upside down. Who tells us we'll be wrong... but what if we saw it from the other side of the coin? 

 

 FREEDOM.. the key word

 

 but freedom is expensive, very dear indeed....

 

  

 

 In the meantime, thank you for reading me and already arriving on my page, I don't want this blog to be seen as a complaint but rather a reading and exchange of interaction between you and me, it's true I'm nobody, but help each other and take it lightly now and laughing together at what we experience every day gives us the strength to raise the bar for our daily living... and remember that we deserve better even if it involves sacrifices of loneliness and defeated battles with swords aimed straight at us, because no one can stop us..  and so we will give strength to our children and if you don't have any I wish you to have them and if you are not mothers, you will still be mothers of yourselves!!!!!

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